How to Choose a Religion V: Common Pitfalls: Community, Fear
November 29th, 2006If you read the summary of this series available at Shift Your Spirits, you saw the list of ways you should not choose your religion:
DON’T choose your religion based on details like food.
A ritual is participatory drama. If the drama speaks to you, resonates with you, it’s a good ritual. If it provides yummy calories, that’s completely incidental.
DON’T choose your religion based on convenience.
Life isn’t supposed to be “convenient”, and a convenient religion is one that doesn’t challenge you enough.
DON’T choose your religion based soley on your community.
If you’re becoming a Christian (or Satanist, or Buddhist) to make your parents happy, you’re just doing it for them, not for you.
DON’T choose your religion based on spite.
If you are becoming a Satanist (or Christian, or Buddhist) to make your parents angry, you’re still doing it for them, not for you.
DON’T choose your religion based on fear.
“If you don’t believe in Jesus, you’re going to hell!”
“If you don’t believe in Santa Claus, you won’t get any presents!”
Grow up, people.
DON’T choose your religion based on guilt.
You can’t reach the kingdom of heaven if you’re standing there kicking yourself.
AND FINALLY:
Don’t choose your religion based on the search for “truth.”
It’s a noble purpose, but it’s a red herring.
In this post I’m going to look at a couple of these in a little more depth. Read the rest of this entry »


